NOTICE AND DO
Excellent
Only said to a friend today he was not helping his wife with the unpacking he was doing what he should be doing. He agreed, laughed and said he had in fact taken over the task. The point being it is not one or other partners role it has to be done so do it.
EQUALLY Men are not babysitting their children when the wife is not around they are parenting and should parent spontaneously not need to be asked.
Mom creates groundbreaking way to teach her kids about chores with a ‘Notice and Do’ list https://www.upworthy.com/notice-and-do-list-instead-of-chores